Over spring break, we were in California, and while my husband and son drove to Phoenix to go to a Seattle Mariners spring training game, my mom and I took G to Disneyland. She wanted to see the princesses, and although I’m not too keen on Disney princesses, I relented and waited in line to meet them. G didn’t want to have her picture taken with the princesses–she just wanted to see the princesses. But I told her, “Uh-uh, if I am waiting for an hour and a half, I am going to have documentation as fruit of my effort.” She was so eager to get away from Cinderella, I didn’t even get a chance to ask Cinderella to look at me.
I never discouraged my son from any of his various interests over the years, whether it was construction, Thomas the Tank engine, or dinosaurs. In fact, I would stalk Craig’s List to find good deals on his latest obsession. But I don’t particularly care for the Disney princesses, and my daughter does not have a single article of princess paraphernalia that she did not beg for. The whole mentality of waiting for some prince to come and rescue you just doesn’t sit well with me, to put it lightly. I want to encourage her in her interests, but this is one interest that I cannot fully endorse.
Today, though, I saw a different angle to my princess dilemma. We went to the Woodland Park Zoo to see their new meerkats, which are very cute, by the way. And I saw a women wearing this T-shirt:
I thought to myself, “OK, I can encourage the princess thing, as long as she is a self-rescuing princess.”